Break free of the limitations society has placed on you.
...And break free of limitations you’ve placed on yourself. Dedicate yourself from this day forward to living a life YOU are happy with!
We spend so much time being there for others- don't forget to show yourself some love! That could be working on your dreams, eating healthy- whatever it is that helps you live your purpose. Show up for you!
How did your story develop?
- Narcissistic parents/sibling/family?
- Emotional/physical abuse?
- Diagnosis as a neurodivergent?
- Oppression (at home, work, community)?
- Domestic violence?
- Bullying?
- Manipulation?
- Rejection?
- Low self-worth?
- Illness?
- Divorce?
How did my story develop?
....With all of the above listed traumas, aside from divorce and domestic violence (not my own illness, but growing up with illness around me).
Although identified as gifted at the age of 5, I never really embraced it- I never had the guidance to understand what it all meant, and what it would mean for me in the future.
I have been manipulated, lied on, used, diminished, called ugly, rejected, made invisible- within my family, with “fake friends” and within workplaces - all because people were unable to be accountable for their discomfort with someone who didn't look, think, or behave as they did.
Through the last decade, I have invested in my personal development, and have been able to heal from much of the trauma I experienced in my life (still on my journey though. I don’t claim perfection.)
People who are unable to understand your individuality (either due to societal conditioning, envy, or just not being willing to) cannot possibly tell you who you are, and therefore, those labels become meaningless.
Nowadays I’m passionate about using my story, education and experiences to help others who are struggling in the same ways I did to overcome the trauma of dealing with unhealthy people and situations, and to become intentional about rebuilding your life, and seeing yourself through your own lens, and not through the lenses of people who don't understand you.
We all have something special we can bring to the table- don't let abuse, marginalization, or societal expectations block you from sharing your unique gifts with the world..
Now, it’s time to rewrite that story
Invest in the most important relationship you’ll ever have- the one with that person in the mirror
The results will be the best return on investment (of your time and energy) you will see.
Relationships today struggle because people are dependent on others to make them happy, to complete them. They live a life manufactured by those around them, never really discovering who they are and what they love.
I want to see you win! Let this be the last day you let society or people in your life stop you from fulfilling your destiny..
Be intentional about living life on your terms.
- You are not other people’s labels- you are whatever YOU define yourself to be.
- You don’t have to let people’s labels, thoughts, behaviors or actions determine the outcome of your story.
- Be intentional about living life on your terms.
- Be intentional about learning who you are and learning to love the person you discover.
- Be intentional about taking action to build your relationships and life to match who you are authentically.