Speaking your truth is much more important than catering to someone else’s lie.
When you are different, people try to make you feel as if their intolerance of your individuality is your problem.
Managing others' intolerance is not your reason for existing - dig past society's labels to find who YOU were designed to be.
...And break free of limitations you’ve placed on yourself. Dedicate yourself from this day forward to living a life YOU are happy with!
We spend so much time being there for others- don't forget to show yourself some love! That could be working on your dreams, eating healthy- whatever it is that helps you live your purpose. Show up for you!
How did your story develop?
....With all of the above listed traumas, aside from divorce and domestic violence (not my own illness, but growing up with illness around me).
Although identified as gifted at the age of 5, I never really embraced it- I never had the guidance to understand what it all meant, and what it would mean for me in the future.
I have been manipulated, lied on, used, diminished, called ugly, rejected, made invisible- within my family, with “fake friends” and within workplaces - all because people were unable to be accountable for their discomfort with someone who didn't look, think, or behave as they did.
Through the last decade, I have invested in my personal development, and have been able to heal from much of the trauma I experienced in my life (still on my journey though. I don’t claim perfection.)
People who are unable to understand your individuality (either due to societal conditioning, envy, or just not being willing to) cannot possibly tell you who you are, and therefore, those labels become meaningless.
Nowadays I’m passionate about using my story, education and experiences to help others who are struggling in the same ways I did to overcome the trauma of dealing with unhealthy people and situations, and to become intentional about rebuilding your life, and seeing yourself through your own lens, and not through the lenses of people who don't understand you.
We all have something special we can bring to the table- don't let abuse, marginalization, or societal expectations block you from sharing your unique gifts with the world..
The results will be the best return on investment (of your time and energy) you will see.
Relationships today struggle because people are dependent on others to make them happy, to complete them. They live a life manufactured by those around them, never really discovering who they are and what they love.
I want to see you win! Let this be the last day you let society or people in your life stop you from fulfilling your destiny..
Please contact us if you cannot find an answer to your question.
Coaching is an interactive experience where we discover your goals and your passions and use them to help you travel down a path to the life you want.
Yes! What happens in our sessions stays in our sessions, unless you or someone else is in danger.
The time that your coaching process will take depends on the complexity of your goals and your commitment and openness to your process. Result are a product of your knowledge, resources, and effort. A coach simply keeps you accountable and helps guide you along your journey.
I totally understand! You can read about my email coaching service on the services page to see if that is a better fit. You can also check back for free resources like the blog for helpful tips and new perspectives.
I understand your position. My coaching practice is for those that are okay embracing their uniqueness, even if that means not fitting in with a larger group. If you are looking for someone to teach you how to fit in, this is not the best program for you.
You can schedule a free 15 min discovery call on the contact page, or you can email firstname.lastname@example.org.